BUSTING EXCUSES: Why You deserve a Boudoir Experience
When we get nervous, we make excuses. We make excuses not to love ourselves or take care of ourselves. Sometimes life is just busy, we are too crazy at work, The Kids have places to be and things that need to get done. DOn't forget spending time with your loved ones, Spouse, brother, sister, grandparents. We also use excuses like "I want to lose weight first, like 5 or 10 lbs" and "I just don't have the money right now!". I wanted to write this to show you all the no matter the excuse, you CAN do it! Let me show you that no matter the excuse, you are worthy of self love!
"I DON'T HAVE ENOUGH TIME FOR MYSELF"
It's also important to remember that is you aren't taking care of your mental health, you can not take care of others if you do not take care of yourself, which makes sense but is actually much easier said than done! Sometimes I am the WORST at making sure I am giving myself mental health breaks and that why I think it's so important to share this with you all. I make the same excuse as above, I am always putting others before myself. My husband often tells me "SLOW DOWN", Give yourself a break.
At a boudoir shoot you are able to breathe, and love yourself for a few hours.
Also think of all that energy you will save when you stopping comparing yourself to others, or stop worrying about what other people will think of how you look. You are beautiful and you can show that though a boudoir shoot. Everyone is unique in their own way. I want to show you that!
The result is amazing for Walland as a result this lifts such a huge mental weight.
You need to take time for yourself, why not spend it having an amazing time and getting all glammed up for once?
"I'M JUST NOT WHERE I WANT TO BE WEIGHTWISE/I JUST DON'T FEEL THE MEDIA'S IDEA OF GOOD ENOUGHSIZE"
Did you know that the body type in advertising as the idea is possessed naturally be 5% of females? ONLY FIVE PERCENT.
I will say this over and over again (and sorry if you've heard me say it before), but WHY do you have to be a certain size to LOVE yourself? Why do you have to fit a strangers messed up idea of a perfect body to LOVE your own body? WHY are you comparing your size to everyone else, when no two women are the same!
I think it's amazing to have goals and want to get healthy, but does that mean you have to hate your body to do those things? Absolutely NOT! You should love yourself every step of the way. Be proud of where you are so you can be proud of where you're going. Have a boudoir shoot to celebrate where you are now, and then have one when you loose there 5/15 lbs to celebrate how far you have come!
"I NEVER FEEL SEXY OR SENSUAL ANYMORE, SO A BOUDOIR SHOOT MUST NOT BE FOR ME."
This excuse is actually the EXACT reason you SHOULD do a boudoir shoot.
Often times we lose touch with our femininity or sexuality when life gets crazy because of all the things that are happening around us, health/kids/work. It happens a lot and it is absolutely normal and okay!. A great way to find this side of ourselves again is to have a shoot done to get that spark back in us. I know it is in you! One side effect is, it might even ignite a spark between you and your spouse as well! I love a good side effect!
Another thing to remember is that you don't have to wear super sexy clothing/lingerie. If you fell like it doesn't show your personality, then there are so many other outfit ideas. If you need ideas, I will gladly talk to you about them or you can check out our blog on finding outfits here!
I also have a small client closet that you can take a peek in if you want.
Some times the simplest item is the most gorgeous.
"A BOUDOIR SHOOT IS AN INVESTMENT AND I JUST DON'T HAVE ALL THE MONEY RIGHT NOW."
YES and boudoir shoot IS an investment. It is also an investment in yourself. You are investing in your well-being, self-love and confidence as well. We do offer payment plans!
In order to book your shoot, there is a booking deposit, and after that we can chat about a payment plan that suits your needs, this makes it easier to book your shoot. If you have any questions about our payment plan, shoot us an email and we will set up your shoot!
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